Wednesday, May 03, 2006

How to manage friends...


-Friendship Files-

-You know that your friends because . . .

*She makes you laugh even while you're crying.

*She's lot of fun and you have a great time together.

*The two of you hit off right away.

*You can talk for hours on the phone together.

*She always speaks the truth.

*She knows you so well she can practically read your mind.

*She would never, ever betray you.

*You've grown up together and she's almost like your sis.

-Friendly Tips-

-Advice for having a construvtive ARGUMENT.

*Don't get mad right away. Try to listen first.

*Don't criticize her as a person. It's better to say"I think you told me a lie" than "You're a liar"

*Make sure each of you gets a chance to understand the other side of the story.

*Be sincere, and gather up the courage to speak your mind.

*No insults allowed: that's the quickest way to lose a friend.

*Don't take it for granted that you know how she will respond to what you are saying. She may
suprise you.

*Listen hard to what she has to say, rather than thinking up a reply while she's talking.

-What can you do if...-

-Your old friend is jealous of your new friend?

Answer: Talk to your old friend and tell her no one can replace her nor
there friendship.

-Your friend doesn't like your new friend at all?

Answer: Well you can't force two people to like each other, so you could hang out with
each friend seperately.






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